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Notorious Girl Revealed
Even if your girlfriend is super
comfortable with you in the sack, chances are good she hasn't divulged all of her deepest doing-it desires. That's why we decided to clue you in to her occasional lusty longings. Gentlemen, some nights she'd secretly like to...Relinquish Control
Frankly, chicks often dig it when their man shows them who's boss in die bedroom. "Women today lead stressful lives with lots of responsibility and in turn welcome the opportunity to surrender sexual power once in a while," says sex columnist Josey Vogels, author of Bedside Manners. "Plus, when her man is in the driver s seat, she's better able to simply lie back and allow herself to indulge in every sensation." Reason enough for you to take charge sometimes.
Call the Shots
On die flip side, as much as your girlfriend might like ceding control, she may also revel in taking the reins on occasion. The trouble is, "Although a woman may enjoy dominating, leading the action can be intimidating to her," says sex therapist Aline Zoldbrod, PhD, author of Sex Talk. To help ease your girl into the role of carnal commander in chief, give her clearance to rule the romp by saying something along the lines of "Tonight, I'm going to do absolutely anything you ask for."Have a Quickie
Nine times out of ten, your girl is going to need a warm-up before you dive into the main event. But every now and then, down-and-dirty instant gratification is what she craves. "On occasion, women
want to experience a rush of pleasure without going through the whole lovemaking process," says Zoldbrod. "Having spontaneous sex the moment desire strikes can be very exhilarating." Not only will that, but urgent, must-have-you-now nooky make your woman feel even more like the irresistible sex goddess she is.Go Wild
Frisky fact: Odds are your girl is dying to pull out all the sexual stops in the sack.
The problem? "Many women fear that if they do something 'naughty' like getting vocal, revealing a fantasy, or introducing a toy, their man may be intimidated or think that they're slutty," says Zoldbrod. "Fortunately, you can eradicate that erroneous belief by giving her permission to be a bit bolder." Simply let her know how hot you think it would be if she shared a steamy daydream, brought a passion prop to bed, or made wake-up-the neighbors noise and she'll instantly feel more comfortable about going carnally crazy with you.